Loved Ones Who Died You Want to Communicate With

by Lulu G. Canlas, OCTOBER 2022

It is still possible to communicate with a loved one after they have died. This can include writing them letters or speaking to them directly. It could be something you do particularly when you’re going through a challenging time, or when you’re celebrating a milestone you wish they were there for.

If it helps, you can also choose a specific place where you visit to talk to them, as a way of staying connected to your loved one. For example, at the cemetery or in a particular area in your home where you keep pictures of them. For those who live in a different city or country from their loved one, it could also help to visit a place you know they would’ve loved, like the beach or a park, perhaps.

We asked MPT South employees who are the loved ones who died they want to communicate with. Here are their top responses.

1. Grandparent/s

EMPLOYEE	WHY?
Christian Usero	Grandmother. Para matanong ko if meron ba talaga syang favoritism sa amin magpipinsan.
Heinz Reimann D. Orais	I want to talk to and meet my mother’s mom. I didn’t have the chance to meet her when she was still alive.
Arreis Franc S. Victor	Mga Lolo’t Lola ko. Gusto ko sila makausap kasi bata palang ako nung pumanaw sila. Eh bawat kwento ng magulang at mga tito at tita ko saming mag pipinsan eh palagi sila ung “kung nabubuhay lang lolo at lola nyo. pag nakita kayo palo sa pwet aabutin nyo. pero love kayo nun kasi matutuwa sila at nag kakasma sama tayo ng ganito.” at gusto ko pa sana sila malibre at makita na gumraduate ako at makita nilang nag tatrabaho ako sa isang magandang kumpanya ❤
Jeffry Del Pilar	My Mamang (Mother’s side), I have never got a chance to talk to her about their lives. Mostly only on my Father’s side whom I know very well their story compare to my Mother’s side as they live a very simple life
Bubot Sueta	My Lola (Inang), Never ko pa kasi nadinig syang magsalita ang “inang ko” kasi na stroke sya, gusto kong madinig ung mga kento nya tungkol sa aking nanay or madinig ang boses nya habang pinapatulog nya ako. It sad lang na hindi nya na naabutan ung time na medyo kaya na namin syangbilhan ng kahit anung gusto nya, specially my nanay kung kelan medyo oki na ung financial namin saka sya nawala.
Pauline Renz Villanueva	Yung lolo ko po kasi never ko po sya na-meet. So, naririnig ko na lang po is mga storya about him.
Eldlene Azugui	My Lola. The adoptive mom of my mother. I practically grew up with her, and I remember how she always wanted to see me finish my studies and achieve my dreams. She wasn’t able to see that, she left us when I was in my first year of college. And since then, she has been my guiding light, in my every achievement, I always look up and ask her ” Did you see that La?, I made it.”
Carousiel Limon	Mrs. Teresita De Guzman (My beloved Lola) – I want to let her know that I missed her so much and I want to feel her hugs. I want to hear how proud she is of all my achievements personally and professionally.
Angeles l Garcia III	Lola kopo kasi miss kona sya
Leslie C. Saulog	If given a chance, I want it to be my grandmother. I will tell her personally that I am very grateful to her for the values she inculcated in me.
Arra Mae Bautista	Grandfather (father’s side) – We did not get a chance to meet and to know each other.

2. Father

EMPLOYEE	WHY?
Arnold Babista	Tatay ko, magpapasalamat ako sa mga nagawa nya sa pamilyaat siya yung naging inspirasyon ko sa buhay.
Rea Joy Flores	Si Papa, Miss na miss ko na sya. A very supportive and loving father. He never judges me even though I got pregnant at an early age he didn’t push me to get married, he support me and still support me in my finance to finish college. Sana I can dance with my father again 😔
Hernany Marfil	Papa , kasi para personal na makahingi ako nang tawad malaki man o maliit na pagkakamali bilang anak.
Jeffrey Brucelo	If given a chance gusto ko makausap ang aking tatay kasi since he passed away last year feeling ko ang dami ko pang mga bagay na hindi ko pa nasabi sa kanya kahit na madalas kami nag-uusap nung mga panahon na nabubuhay pa siya saka feeling ko rin kulang pa yung paghingi ko ng thank you sa kanya sa lahat-lahat ng ginawa nyang sakripisyo para sa aming pamilya and yung paghingi ko ng sorry sa kanya sa mga maling desisyon na nagawa ko sa buhay ko.
Marvin M. Senon	Ang gusto kong makausap ay ang namayapa kung tatay dahil maliit pa ako nung sya ay nawala. Marami ako sana ikukwento sa kanya kung sakali sabay 2-bottles.
Lorelie Aladad	Ang aking ama dahil gusto kupang itanonong sakanya kung paano ang tamang pag gabay sa mga anak bagay na hindi ko hindi kuna naitanong sakanya noong suma kabilabang buhay na siya….
Rebecca Olivia S. Dimasacat	Gusto kong makausap aking tatay. Namimiss kong magkwento sa kanya ng mga pangyayari sa buhay ko ngaun. Gusto kong ibahagi sa kanya ang lahat ng magagandang bagay na nangyayari sa akin na dati ay pinapangarap lang niya para sa akin, sa aming magkakapatid. Tiyak na magiging masaya siya at proud. Nakakalungkot na di na niya naabutan ang lahat ng ito.
Gemmelyn M. Aguillon	Si Papa at Kapatid ko pong lalaki. Gusto ko sila makausap kase namimiss ko na sila at gusto ko malaman kung okay naman po ba sila.
RONALD M. ESCAROS	Tatay ko. nung mamatay sya di ako nakapag paalam ng maayos at di ko man lang nayakap dahil sa panahon ng covid. Para na rin maka pag pasalamat sa kanya .
Maria Miarosa Derriega	It would be my father and my lola. Di ako nabigyan ng chance na sabihin lahat sa kanila kasi i was in laguna and they are living in quezon city. I was far from them, di ako nagkaron ng chance makabond sila ng matagal kaya if given a chance I want to talk to them po & say thank you for everything kasi I will not be here if not because of them po

3. Mother

EMPLOYEE	WHY?
Mhanny Agusto	My mom. Gusto ko ikwento lahat ng nangyari sa amin in the past 10 years na hindi namin siya nakasama. Pero mas gusto ko ibigay yung chance na makausap niya yung bunso namin who was only 2 yrs old when she left. ❤
Engelbert Perdigon	Mama ko po, dahil buong buhay ko Mama ko ang nagtiwala sa kakayanan ko simula nung nag aral pa ko. Kahit hindi nya naabutan ang Pagtatapos ko ng College.
Rigo Vegas	Mother ko po. Sobrang miss ko na kasi siya.
Salve Perez	Gusto ko po makausap ang nanay ko. Gusto ko po sabihin sa kanya na miss na miss ko na po sya at sana ay palagi syang masaya. Gusto ko po sabihin na kahit matagal na panahon na syang wala ay di mawawala ang pagmamahal ko sa kanya.

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About the writer:

Lulu G. Canlas. A kind-hearted individual who helps others express their feelings, and shake off their burden through the power of writing and expressing their thought.